Our Keys to a Happy Marriage

Updated: Mar 14

๐Ÿ’Žโ€จ *absolute authenticity and transparency (yes, really) ๐Ÿ’Ž *asking for and giving space when needed ๐Ÿ’Ž *asking for support (that we know the other can provide) when needed ๐Ÿ’Ž *not expecting the other to meet all our needs and having a network of people who meet our needs in ways they canโ€™t ๐Ÿ’Ž *making time for play time, appreciation and celebration ๐Ÿ’Ž *and most importantly, doing the work on ourselves first and not blaming the other ๐Ÿ’Ž

Iโ€™m so grateful for all the necessary stepping stones that got me to this phenomenal relationship. All the trials, abuse, pain, trauma bonding, and secretive shame that I learned from in the past. โ€จ I remember going into a dark night of the soul after my last traumatic separation. I was deep in a pit of loneliness and despair in a tiny house in the mountains of Taiwan.


I felt it all. I allowed shadows to come forward and be felt. I shook, cried, raged, and met myself anew. Loved myself anew. โ€จI had two tests before taking the Deep Dive with Leiven. Where I could have settled, but no, I stood my ground in my worth. I was ready for the kind of spiritual partnership I dreamed of. โ€จ I was ready to burn in the fire with another. They needed to be magnificent and just right for me. A human who could embrace all of me - because I.am.a.glorious.fuckin.lot.of.magic. โ€จ


They had to be ready, willing and resourced enough in their own self worth and willingness to continue to grow in the fire with me. For the sake of all beings. My tantric consort. Ready to change the world with me through our relationship. โ€จ Iโ€™m grateful every day to my beloved for our mutual commitment to clearing our old ways of smallness, inauthenticity, settling, status quo, and suffering through the sacred marriage of Compassion and Wisdom in the One Heart. May the joy frequency that is our Marriage be so for ALL <3. Om Mani Padme Hum. ๐Ÿ’Ž๐Ÿ’Ž๐Ÿ’Ž


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